Driven because of excessively and one sidedly face-washing of selective communities on the name of their traits, trends, values and customs about an holisitic custom of India, here presents the fair treatment met with a combination of analogy and benchmarking on the three major types of marriage lines found in India.

The custom talked here is the "Gotra Consideration" on marriages. Gotra plays major role in two types of marriages i.e. "With in gotra marriage" and "Out of gotra but within caste marriage". In case of third kind i.e. "Inter-caste/Inter-religion marriage" it depends on the first generation couple of these marriages, which line of the three they would opt for their posterities.

Prime focus of the study is Hindu Dharma Marriage Customs and if to precide on geographic bases it may further be concise to North-West India.

One may be surprised to see no category for "Love Marriage" as may got the impression from first reading. A due consider has been given to Love Marriage taking it a commonality found through-out all the three categories.

So here the author presents its analogy:

Surrogacy

Right - Conservative

Central - Principle

Left - Liberal

Purpose

To keep the woman in maximum emotional and bound controls

Gender equality consideration on respect but limited boundations on choice

Grand public opinion formation by being individual

Approach

Pro-active approach to keep the indirect psychological control on woman empire

Lead modern life by conserving the traditional values.

Society of individuals

Negative

Only girl is to be adopted to avoid the « Same Gotra Clash », never seen a boy adopted to sacrifice his gotra. (Threats of property inheritance rights for a male in a patriarchal society might be reason)

Mother Gotra has no respect/consideration, only father’s prevail.

Most patriarchal
Moderate Divorce Cases

Moderate Honor Killing

No same gotra marriage

Moderate Honor killing

Patriarchal mindset

Bottom divorce cases

Generally seen as no cultural or social affinity, no responsiveness on social fabric maintenance.

Often found socially deprived or limited to circle of certainty.

Highest suicide cases

Highest divorce cases

Frequency

Lowest cases of inter-caste marriages, especially in top to bottom social standard approach

Love marriages are found at village level even but hesitance of going top to bottom on social standards found here too

Highest but often ended with struggling throughout life.

Positive

Love birds within gotra can practice the married life but girl only (as seen till date) has to adopt the gotra of other close relative via adoption.

Concept is based on gender equality, gotras of both male and female are given equal consideration and respect. Respect was even extended to gotras of grand-mothers in ancient times.

No patriarchal more liberal and friendly approach to kids but with in world of cubical thoughts

Threat

Seize the chances for girl opting for out of caste marriage by opening with in gotra option for her.

To avoid medical conspiracies, post-birth ill health impacts

Access to public loudness, no big friend circle.

Castes/groups

Business and Artist

Priest, Agriculture and Skilled Labor

Mixture of exceptions across groups

Claim

To protect busienss and property (Business).

Complexion of being the most opened and advanced (artist).

The flag bearers and preserves of religion (priests).

Customs and values should be respected (Agriculture and Skilled Labor).

Every individual should live by choice but in practical and at the stage of maturity no such relieving ever seen.

Blame

Biggest spoiler of the community as a whole.

Dictats of medieval thoughts.

Biggest threat to social fabric

Combination

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